Mar 21, 2025
some people just get it.
you throw out an idea, half-formed, messy, unpolished, and instead of shutting it down, they catch it. they spin it around, add something, stretch it, throw it back. suddenly, you’re both deep in a conversation neither of you expected, ideas bouncing, evolving, taking on a life of their own. this is what real thinking feels like: exploratory, playful, alive.
but most people don’t think like this.
most people default to no. they hear a new idea & their first instinct is to point out what’s wrong with it. they highlight the flaws, the risks, the ways it doesn’t fit with what they already know. they don’t play with ideas—they judge them. in their world, everything is rigid, predetermined, locked in place. conversations aren’t experiments; they’re evaluations.
and this mindset is everywhere.
you see it in meetings, where someone suggests a wild, ambitious idea, & the room immediately fixates on why it won’t work. you see it in casual conversations, where an offhand musing is met with a skeptical “but that doesn’t make sense” instead of a curious “what if?” you see it in creative fields, where the greatest barrier isn’t a lack of talent, but a lack of permission to think freely without immediate scrutiny.
the difference is fundamental: some people see the world as malleable, something to be shaped, experimented with, played with. others see it as fixed, a set of rules to be memorized & obeyed.
who do you think builds the future?
open-ended thinking is how everything great happens.
paul graham’s essays are born from riffing on ideas until something sharp emerged.
steve jobs’ obsession with design is a series of relentless “what if” conversations that led to new ways of thinking about computers.
stand-up comedian workshop jokes live, testing, refining, seeing what lands.
scientists throw out hypotheses, see where they break, explore unexpected paths.
every great thing—every company, every movement, every work of art started as a fragile, uncertain thought that someone let breathe instead of killing it too soon.
so here’s a challenge: the next time someone shares an idea with you, resist the urge to critique it. don’t be the person who shuts things down. be the one who builds on them. say “yes, and…” instead of “but actually.” treat ideas like clay, not glass.
because the world is not fixed. it is shaped by those who dare to think out loud.