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Key Messages and Interpretation
Dweck illustrates the difference between a “growth mindset” vs a “fixed mindset” through multiple examples across the book. At first, the difference is presented as binary to make a clear distinction between the two mindsets. Later in the book, both mindsets are presented as a spectrum, which is consistent with how I like to view them (in an equilibrium).
The distinction is self-explanatory and although the constant repetitions of examples can become distracting, the key underlying messages remain robust. The most important of which are “becoming is better than being”, “the view that you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life” and “everyone can change and grow through application and experience”.
These are mantras that I aspire to live by, primarily the first one, as it emphasizes the joy in “becoming” rather than in “being”. Becoming journey-oriented vs outcome-oriented is a key focus area for me.
- A fixed mindset is discouraged by failure, clinging to past perceptions formed and concerned by judgement (not of improvement). “When they’re not feeling smart or talented - they lose interest.” A fixed mindset does not allow you the luxury of “becoming”, as you have to already “be”.
- A growth mindset thrives under challenges and risks. The primary fear-based concern is of improving. To “just let go and learn”. The learning and self-improvement part comes after the first step of regaining your self-esteem. Also, you can develop your abilities.